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Hi, thank you for joining us, we hope that we can be a hand for you to hold during this trying time. In order to keep our site safe and helpful to all who use our services we'd like to state the guidelines below. As administrators we reserve the right to delete (or not post) anything that goes against our decorum. Please help keep our site a SEA (support, education n' advice) of calm for each other during these turbulent times. Thank you for joining us here. 1. These boards are for venting but they are not a one way ticket to a Lashon Harah Fair. We are careful not to bad-mouth anyone by name and to use only clean respectful language. Please note that venting is allowed, just do it in a way that is respectful. (Example: argghhhh my ex is so annoying always buying the kids candy when we agreed not to... is fine, (no names, no identifying details and no bad language...) Keep it clean! 2. These boards are for support, but we are not offering professional counseling services. You can give your opinon and advice but no soliciting clients for any form of therapy (or any other business!) and no insisiting that anyone go to counseling. You can offer your opinon (Example: when I went through that I found that counseling really helped me..) but remember - Keep it Safe! 3. This is not a matchmaking service - our boards are meant for support, advice and networking within the frum community, and to help you see that there are others out there who "get it." These boards are for women only and we hope that you will find the right people that you can connect to however, these boards are not a matchmaking session. 4. No judging and no condeming. Everyone here deserves a warm safe place to be themselves without the masks that need to go up in front of others. 5. Privacy and safety are VITAL what you see and read and and post and respond here need to stay HERE. NO REAL NAMES used for yourselves or for anyone connected to you in any way. No phone numbers or identifying information may be posted on our site. 6. Above all let's remember to respect each other and each persons need for a safe understanding place to be with other frum women in the same boat, and let's remember to daven (pray) for each other to find real happiness and safety and compassion always.